I'll be graduating from Multnomah in one month from today. Originally, we planned to take a year off before devoting ourselves to grad school and a big move to the east coast. I began tentatively investigating grad schools, having had recently decided to pursue a Master's in Education (as opposed to an mDiv). By January of this year, I had two institutions in mind: Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, which offers a Master's in Educational Ministry and NYU, offering a Master's in Educational Psychology. We had no plans to pursue these with any haste. Yet one night we had a long discussion and realized a few things:
- Why spend time planting ourselves deeper in our community, if we know that in a year we'll need to uproot ourselves? That would make the process all the more difficult, and would be unfair to ourselves and those with whom we are in relationship.
- We want to have kids. The sooner we start on grad school, the sooner this can become a reality.
- Educationally, it's probably wisest to reduce the amount of time off as possible.
We decided this on a Saturday. That Monday I contacted all my references, began filling out applications to the two schools and by the end of that week I had my application out to Gordon-Conwell, and the following week my application to NYU was completed. We visited both schools and I received my acceptance letters to both within a few weeks after visitng. Although NYU was tempting to me educationally, we decided to move to South Hamilton, Massachusetts (I think that was the first time I spelled Massachusetts right on the first try!).

Here is a brief list of things we must accomplish before the big departure:
- Brief trip to Colorado to cease some legal obligations.
- Graduation.
- Get out Sarah's résumé.
- Housing and jobbing settled.
- Finish Prokope curriculum and passing-off.
- Plan trek across the country.
- Buy digital camera and sell things on Craigslist.
- Sell trucky.
- Pack.
- Be in Mike and Hannah's wedding.
- Absorb Portland (McMennamins! Stumptown! Hiking! No sales tax!).
- Absorb friends.
5 comments:
yay for doing things. yay for doing things in school!although, wheres the love?! no nyu? yeah yeah, I saw it coming, at least now I'll have a place in boston to crash... right? heh. good luck with the trip and a piece of advice - avoid mt. rushmore, its nauseatingly commercialized among other things.
Navigating your last moments is difficult. We are praying for you! When Katie and I decided to move to Portland we realized that our tendency would be to pull away from people because we would be moving. But we decided that our only reason for this would be to make the move less painful. We concluded that our move would be painful regardless so we decided to spend as much time with our friends and community as we could. Our last 10 months in Phoenix were some of the best times of our entire life because we hung out with friends and community up until the day we left. The reality of moving/leaving removed quite a few obstacles we had in relationships and we found that our relationships began to deepen really quick. We also were able to show people the reality and pain of change and what it looks like to trust God through it. Our friends and community were able to support us and walk with us through the experience. It was really difficult and sad when we moved but we wouldn't trade the memories and discoveries of our last moments in Phoenix for anything.
Dustin, your words are encouraging. Thank you so much. You have a great point and relationship should occur regardless of the context. We should see ourselves blessed enough to maintain voices in the lives we do now.
I feel as though your comment is manipulating us to get us to hang out with you and Katie more before we leave. It's working. Let's set something up.
Hey brother,
So... you want to have kids eh? What a riot!
Thanks for letting Sarah and I be a part of your life, even if we are far away. We love you two so much!
I'm looking forward to hearing about how grad school is going and all the fun things you are going to learn!
love you,
johnpaul&sarahbeth
this was pretty sweet...
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